Lots of ways. This is my personal journeys lessons.
1) Note in your mind the people you absolutely must have in your life. (wife, husband, child, best friend since 3?)
2) Don't tell them anything yet. Or anyone else.
3) Become "discouraged" over something. If the elders offer counsel, thank them for it.
4) Start missing meetings.
5) Start mentioning small things as the possibility may arise tht you are struggling with to the "must haves" list. this must be done the right way, and turn it off fast.
6) Make sure you use phrases that are non commital.
Some of my favorites are "I'm just going to put my trust in Jehovah and not men".
"I can't teach things that go against my conscience no matter who tells me to, because in james the bible says that is a sin"
"I would not want to hurt your faith by discussing it with you, that would never be my intent". (I use this ALOT)
By now, people will have forgotton you, you probably have a grip on what you can and cannot do with the "must haves" on your list.
If you have no people to take with you, just move. Easiest way to do it if it suits you.